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Encouraging Enthusiasm |
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Walking through Central Park each morning,
I often encounter a dog I’ve written about before. Whenever she sees someone
she knows, or when she runs among the trees, she simply barks and
barks and barks and barks. Her enthusiasm is infectious, and
people can’t help but smile. The other morning, I asked
her human companion how he managed to deal with her barking in his
apartment. He told me that she never barks at home. She
saves it all up for Central Park each morning.
That fact really impressed me. This delightful dog had figured
out that she has full license each and every day to let go in Central
Park – to allow herself to bark and run up to people and other
dogs, and to generally enjoy herself fully. As I continued
on my journey to my office, I began to think about enthusiasm and
where and when we experience it. This dog embodies sheer delight,
and she doesn’t hold anything back. Her way of being
got me to wondering about those places where each of us may have
sources of enthusiasm where we hold back, or not allow ourselves
to fully express our delight in the moment.
For this week’s experiment, I invite you to notice where
enthusiasm invites you to engage it and where you do and don’t
allow it full expression. It may be a moment of small delight,
or something that lifts your spirits in a powerful way. Or,
it may be an urge to dance or swing your arms wide. It may be
an urge to sing out loud or to laugh from your belly.
As you explore where and when you do and
don’t allow yourself
to engage life enthusiastically, notice what happens this week if
you allow yourself to go ahead and experience, as well as express,
your enthusiasm in the moment. Find out what happens inside
you when you fully experience and express your delight, even if you
don’t do so “out loud.” And, especially notice
what it’s like when you have an urge to engage life enthusiastically
and stop yourself. You’ll notice a truly different experience
between allowing and not allowing an active expression of delight
in your life.
Remember, as with all experiments, engage
this one without judgment. The
invitation is to be curious and kind to yourself with your responses. Most
of us have learned ways to stop ourselves from expressing our enthusiasm
out loud, so this week’s experiment can be a gentle reminder
to see what happens when you follow your internal experience and
allow it to be what it is most naturally.
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